Comments on: Healing Emotional Wounds http://www.thechangeblog.com/healing-emotional-wounds/ Change Your Life Fri, 30 Jul 2010 03:32:15 -0700 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.8.6 hourly 1 By: JW Glover http://www.thechangeblog.com/healing-emotional-wounds/comment-page-1/#comment-12764 JW Glover Mon, 10 May 2010 01:45:17 +0000 http://www.thechangeblog.com/?p=2134#comment-12764 Hey, I am taking a big step of faith right now I'm 33 and iv been married for the last 4 years and I am in a place with in my self trying to heal wounds I didn't even know where there until just a week or so ago I have never had or felt what I am going through right now especially with my better hf my lovely wife and son a situation arose causing us to separate and sense this I have been going through some serious grief not understanding where or why I am feeling this way my whole life I have never felt this way about any one the way I feel about my wife and then the reaLity hit me really heard that my whole life I have oppressed what my true issues where like rejection, mistrust, resentment towards others and a loss of communication . So I started looking and searching and this is a place I found and I am in a very lonely place in my mind and in my heart. I'm here to eek some advise that I can apply to my circumstances and move past tos inner most painfully wound I have ever had I have identified some but yet have drawn my self to accept them I a in the grieving part and this is what. Brought this out I would be very grateful for any advise o can get Thanks. JW Glover Hey, I am taking a big step of faith right now I’m 33 and iv been married for the last 4 years and I am in a place with in my self trying to heal wounds I didn’t even know where there until just a week or so ago I have never had or felt what I am going through right now especially with my better hf my lovely wife and son a situation arose causing us to separate and sense this I have been going through some serious grief not understanding where or why I am feeling this way my whole life I have never felt this way about any one the way I feel about my wife and then the reaLity hit me really heard that my whole life I have oppressed what my true issues where like rejection, mistrust, resentment towards others and a loss of communication . So I started looking and searching and this is a place I found and I am in a very lonely place in my mind and in my heart. I’m here to eek some advise that I can apply to my circumstances and move past tos inner most painfully wound I have ever had I have identified some but yet have drawn my self to accept them I a in the grieving part and
this is what. Brought this out I would be very grateful for any advise o can get

Thanks. JW Glover

]]> By: Christina Mwaro http://www.thechangeblog.com/healing-emotional-wounds/comment-page-1/#comment-9194 Christina Mwaro Tue, 08 Dec 2009 23:44:48 +0000 http://www.thechangeblog.com/?p=2134#comment-9194 @Shondra Johnston, *8years ago i had an experience that left me wounded, i have struggled to deal with the pain all these years. My experience involved my new boyfriend then with whom we began a business and soon after i brought my 20year old niece to work with us. Soon after using very high level of scheming she began to tell my boyfreind all these lies about me and before long i was thrown out of the office, along with other key employees. When i complained to him he became violent, by then our now 7 year old son was due. What followed were harrassment of all sort, my niece would write text message to him anonmously threating to kill him and this would be put on me by police. My boyfreind is a European and i am an African. All through the many trips to police cells i have tried to plead my innocence but not even the detectives would understand the trick my niece used. What hurts most is that my entire family has stood by her and as a result i have lost entire family. Many times my boyfriend has come to stay with us but if i as much as say anything about something i dont like he reverts to accusing me of these incidents and leaves us. I hurt so much for myself and my son. I have sought help from many sites and people but no one seems to understand the strory. My boyfriend accuses me of being childish yet i know it was not justified for me and our son to be locked up in police cells for things my niece made up. To this date she runs the office with him. based on the past experiences, i feel trapped rejected. I spend most of my time with muy son not knowing which way forward. People have told me that i encouraged the affair by accepting him to come home, and that if i put this behind me i will heal.... Most people who kno the story insist the two are having an affair but i am so scared of accepting it as i have continued to be intimate with my boyfirend for the many times he has on and off come back to us. Is there a chance for my healing? For me i always felt that the day someone will understand the trick my niece used to blind and fool the father of my son my healing will have began. @Shondra Johnston, *8years ago i had an experience that left me wounded, i have struggled to deal with the pain all these years. My experience involved my new boyfriend then with whom we began a business and soon after i brought my 20year old niece to work with us. Soon after using very high level of scheming she began to tell my boyfreind all these lies about me and before long i was thrown out of the office, along with other key employees. When i complained to him he became violent, by then our now 7 year old son was due.

What followed were harrassment of all sort, my niece would write text message to him anonmously threating to kill him and this would be put on me by police. My boyfreind is a European and i am an African. All through the many trips to police cells i have tried to plead my innocence but not even the detectives would understand the trick my niece used. What hurts most is that my entire family has stood by her and as a result i have lost entire family. Many times my boyfriend has come to stay with us but if i as much as say anything about something i dont like he reverts to accusing me of these incidents and leaves us. I hurt so much for myself and my son. I have sought help from many sites and people but no one seems to understand the strory.

My boyfriend accuses me of being childish yet i know it was not justified for me and our son to be locked up in police cells for things my niece made up. To this date she runs the office with him. based on the past experiences, i feel trapped rejected. I spend most of my time with muy son not knowing which way forward.
People have told me that i encouraged the affair by accepting him to come home, and that if i put this behind me i will heal…. Most people who kno the story insist the two are having an affair but i am so scared of accepting it as i have continued to be intimate with my boyfirend for the many times he has on and off come back to us.
Is there a chance for my healing?

For me i always felt that the day someone will understand the trick my niece used to blind and fool the father of my son my healing will have began.

]]> By: Christina Mwaro http://www.thechangeblog.com/healing-emotional-wounds/comment-page-1/#comment-9192 Christina Mwaro Tue, 08 Dec 2009 23:12:15 +0000 http://www.thechangeblog.com/?p=2134#comment-9192 @Christina Mwaro, I felt a lot of pain in my heart that spread all over my body, so i began to search for a website that could comment on my hurt feelings. Thank you for this website, i feel much better and will definately read more if only to understand why i always end up getting hurt in relationships. @Christina Mwaro, I felt a lot of pain in my heart that spread all over my body, so i began to search for a website that could comment on my hurt feelings. Thank you for this website, i feel much better and will definately read more if only to understand why i always end up getting hurt in relationships.

]]> By: Farouk http://www.thechangeblog.com/healing-emotional-wounds/comment-page-1/#comment-8722 Farouk Sat, 17 Oct 2009 10:48:44 +0000 http://www.thechangeblog.com/?p=2134#comment-8722 Dear Nea i strongly agree, this is what i always try to tell people through my articles thanks for your post :D Dear Nea
i strongly agree, this is what i always try to tell people through my articles
thanks for your post :D

]]> By: Nea | Self Improvement Saga http://www.thechangeblog.com/healing-emotional-wounds/comment-page-1/#comment-8694 Nea | Self Improvement Saga Wed, 14 Oct 2009 23:32:23 +0000 http://www.thechangeblog.com/?p=2134#comment-8694 I believe it is extremely important to determine the deep reasons behind our actions and feelings. Anyone can turn their life around if they do so from the inside out. Thanks for sharing this post. I believe it is extremely important to determine the deep reasons behind our actions and feelings. Anyone can turn their life around if they do so from the inside out. Thanks for sharing this post.

]]> By: Farouk http://www.thechangeblog.com/healing-emotional-wounds/comment-page-1/#comment-8687 Farouk Wed, 14 Oct 2009 12:52:10 +0000 http://www.thechangeblog.com/?p=2134#comment-8687 ok will take a look dear :) ok will take a look dear :)

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