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I hate car shopping. I’m one of those people who will wait until my car is more rust than machine before trading it in. It’s not that I hate new cars. I will just do anything to avoid the car salesman pitch: Buy this car now! It’s the best deal on the lot! Hurry! It could be gone tomorrow! I know it’s part of the car-buying dance, but honestly, I’d rather sit this one out.
The vast majority of marketing we encounter is overblown. Everyone claims to be the best, whether it’s your real estate agent down to your toothpaste provider. We’ve become jaded to the promises we’ve heard through advertising, to the point where many of us actively block it whenever possible. I mean, Super Bowl aside, who gets pumped about watching ads?
It’s no wonder in this environment that business schools tell students that great companies under-promise and over-deliver. The idea is simple: don’t make hyperbolic claims and then disappoint people when you can’t meet them. Instead, focus your company on making attainable promises and always deliver. For real consumer loyalty, go above and beyond the call of duty to delight your customers. Over time, your business will build its reputation based on customer interactions, not false promises.
I’ve followed this advice for many years in my professional life. I try to go the extra mile on my projects, especially on the details many people might miss. I set reasonable deadlines for myself and when possible, try to get them done early as an added surprise. Whenever I make a mistake, I own up to it, and then without saying anything, do my best to correct it and learn from it. Not everything I’ve done has been recognized, but I have built a solid reputation that has allowed me to branch out into contract work.
But why stop at your professional life? One of my flaws is that I’m terrible at staying in touch with family. For years, I’ve been telling my grandmother I would call her regularly, which translates to major holidays – hardly a stellar record. This year, instead of making promises to her, I made a calendar event every Wednesday to call her. No excuses, just action. Now that I’m calling every week, we’re both happier, and this time I didn’t promise her a single thing.
So if you find yourself not able to keep your word – whether it be professional or personal – stop talking about what you’ll do (under-promise), and just do it with style instead (over-deliver). Go the extra mile and please someone in a way they didn’t expect you to. It will not only make someone else appreciate you more, but you’ll feel less like false advertising and more like someone who gets things done.
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